Someone once said to me that friendships are established the moment when someone says ‘wow that happened to me too….’

There are so many things that we experience in life and half the time we feel alone in those experiences. Talking to the people around you may help and you feel much better about letting it all out. Although it would be nicer to talk to someone who has at least been through an experience like yours rather than talk with just anyone.

For some really inspirational and uplifting words you could look up any of the following: encouragement letter christian words words of encouragement for death

People who have shared a similar experience to you understand your situation much better and you can easily relate to them. I always feel cheated when I share my problems with someone who has no idea what its like being in my situation and all they can tell me is ‘don’t worry things will be fine.’

Someone who has been through similar experiences will not only give you words of encouragement but objective and sound advice as well. I recall one time after learning this concept I approached a friend of mine in a similar position as me for a shoulder to cry on. believe it or not it was more than tea that we ended up sharing, we managed a few good laughs and I wasn’t so worried anymore

you will get people who tell you that you should talk with a counselor, psychologist and I agree they are professionals but sometimes you just need to be around someone that is genuine you know. You need to talk to someone who will be at ease with you rather than quote you passages from a text book. everyday words coming from a genuine person can be more uplifting than words from a text book.

You regain your focus and are able to think positively about your situation. Even though the problem may still be there just knowing that someone went thorough it and made it goes a long way.You will be in a position to appreciate that even the most painful experiences can be lived through.